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Message of February 1

I have written previously about how our Inner Guides can help us understand the feelings of others and their behavior toward us. But we can also get help from our Inner Guides' understanding of our behavior toward others, more than we would otherwise be aware of.

Does someone we would like to know better not reciprocate our wish? Why? Are we doing something that is off putting to her?

Conversely does someone we would rather not spend a lot of time with pursue us? Why? Is there something in our behavior that attracts him?

Are there things we do that unwittingly cause distress to others? If we don't realize what we are doing, how can we change? And should we?

Ask your Inner Guide the following questions:

1. "Am I offending or hurting anyone without realizing it?"

2. "If so, who? And what am I doing?"

3. "Why am I behaving this way toward someone?"

Understanding these situations will resolve them and as that occurs a disequilibrium will be solved. A partial solution will be replaced by a true solution and you will feel freer.

(It is easiest to get full responses if you have acquired automatic handwriting. These questions can also be asked and answered by means of inner thought but for answers that are not already near the surface automatic handwriting is better.)

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Best regards,

     Judith M. Davis

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